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*PERMANENTLY UNDER CONSTRUCTION*ALIGN=Center&gt;</description><title>with half of my heart</title><generator>Tumblr (3.0; @beforeiloveandleaveyou)</generator><link>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/</link><item><title>Not Crying</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/50903729063/not-crying"&gt;dearoldlove&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;I thought maybe I wasn’t crying because I didn’t care. How sad to realize it was because I was paralyzed by misery. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50993027027</link><guid>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50993027027</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 May 2013 17:27:53 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>Neurolove.me: Tips To Cope with Over-thinking </title><description>&lt;a href="http://neurolove.me/post/50086594798/tips-to-cope-with-over-thinking"&gt;Neurolove.me: Tips To Cope with Over-thinking &lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://psych-quotes.tumblr.com/post/50010150251/tips-to-cope-with-over-thinking"&gt;psych-quotes&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://neurolove.me/post/39157967842/tips-to-cope-with-over-thinking"&gt;psych-facts&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Many of you asked me how to deal with over-thinking so I asked you guys back about it and some of your tips for dealing with it. I’ve based this short article on many of your responses and hope that it helps in some ways. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;How would you define over thinking?&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Even though we each have our own experiences, I think this captures the essence of your responses of what over thinking is:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Over thinking is when we think too much about something especially a problem causing us to lose sight of the big picture. Often times, we may find ourselves thinking too much to the point that we become delusional, complicating a problem,  creating a problem that is not there, or/and making ourselves feeling anxious and worried. Over thinking also causes us not to be able to enjoy a normal experience.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://psych-quotes.tumblr.com/post/50010150251/tips-to-cope-with-over-thinking"&gt;Read More&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50987109023</link><guid>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50987109023</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 May 2013 15:16:43 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>"I have a deeply hidden and inarticulate desire for something beyond the daily life."</title><description>“I have a deeply hidden and inarticulate desire for something beyond the daily life.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Virgina Woolf (via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://solunars.tumblr.com/"&gt;solunars&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50982275556</link><guid>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50982275556</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 May 2013 13:05:44 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>"I think you still love me, but we can’t escape the fact that I’m not enough for you. I knew this was..."</title><description>“I think you still love me, but we can’t escape the fact that I’m not enough for you. I knew this was going to happen. So I’m not blaming you for falling in love with another woman. I’m not angry, either. I should be, but I’m not. I just feel pain. A lot of pain. I thought I could imagine how much this would hurt, but I was wrong.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Haruki Murakami, &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;“South of The Border, West of The Sun”&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50978463783</link><guid>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50978463783</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 May 2013 10:54:49 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>"The highest function of love is that it makes the loved one a unique and irreplaceable being."</title><description>“The highest function of love is that it makes the loved one a unique and irreplaceable being.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Tom Robbins, &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;“Jitterbug Perfume”&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50974410405</link><guid>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50974410405</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 May 2013 08:43:48 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>"It isn’t possible to love and part. You will wish that it was. You can transmute love, ignore it,..."</title><description>“It isn’t possible to love and part. You will wish that it was. You can transmute love, ignore it, muddle it, but you can never pull it out of you. I know by experience that the poets are right: love is eternal.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;E.M Forster, &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;“A Room with A View”&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50967936560</link><guid>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50967936560</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 May 2013 06:33:04 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>"By my soul, I can neither eat, drink, nor sleep; nor, what’s still worse, love any woman in the..."</title><description>“By my soul, I can neither eat, drink, nor sleep; nor, what’s still worse, love any woman in the world but her.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Samuel Richardson, &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;“Clarissa”&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; or &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;“The History of A Young Lady”&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50958156946</link><guid>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50958156946</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 May 2013 04:22:13 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>I’ve been looking so long at these pictures of youThat I...</title><description>&lt;iframe class="tumblr_audio_player tumblr_audio_player_50948408303" src="http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50948408303/audio_player_iframe/beforeiloveandleaveyou/tumblr_mn4h36C7Vm1qbre4f?audio_file=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.tumblr.com%2Faudio_file%2Fbeforeiloveandleaveyou%2F50948408303%2Ftumblr_mn4h36C7Vm1qbre4f" frameborder="0" allowtransparency="true" scrolling="no" width="500" height="85"&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;I’ve been looking so long at these pictures of you&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;That I almost believe that they’re real &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;I’ve been living so long with my pictures of you&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;em&gt;That I almost believe that the pictures are &lt;/em&gt;&lt;em&gt;a&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;ll I can feel&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;Remembering you&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;Standing quiet in the rain &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;As I ran to your heart to be near &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;And we kissed as the sky fell in&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;Holding you close &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;How I always held close in your fear&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;Remembering you&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;Running soft through the night &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;You were bigger and brighter and wider than snow&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;And screamed at the make-believe &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;Screamed at the sky&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;And you finally found all your courage &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;To let it all go&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;Remembering you&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;Fallen into my arms &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;Crying for the death of your heart &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;You were stone white&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;So delicate &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;Lost in the cold &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;You were always so lost in the dark&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;Remembering you&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;How you used to be &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;Slow drowned &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;You were angels&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;So much more than everything &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;Hold for the last time then slip away quietly &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;Open my eyes &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;But I never see anything&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;If only I’d thought of the right words &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;I could have held on to your heart &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;If only I’d thought of the right words&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;I wouldn’t be breaking apart &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;All my pictures of you&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;Looking so long at these pictures of you &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;But I never hold on to your heart &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;Looking so long for the words to be true&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;But always just breaking apart&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;My pictures of you&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;There was nothing in the world&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;That I ever wanted more &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;Than to feel you deep in my heart&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;There was nothing in the world &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;That I ever wanted more&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;Than to never feel the breaking apart&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;All my pictures of you&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50948408303</link><guid>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50948408303</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 May 2013 02:23:29 +0200</pubDate><category>music</category><category>Lyrics</category><category>The Cure</category></item><item><title>"You know what I am going to say. I love you. What other men may mean when they use that expression,..."</title><description>“You know what I am going to say. I love you. What other men may mean when they use that expression, I cannot tell; what I mean is, that I am under the influence of some tremendous attraction which I have resisted in vain, and which overmasters me.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Charles Dickens, &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;“Our Mutual Friends”&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50947454975</link><guid>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50947454975</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 May 2013 02:11:14 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>"I’ve never had a moment’s doubt. I love you. I believe in you completely. You are my dearest one. My..."</title><description>“I’ve never had a moment’s doubt. I love you. I believe in you completely. You are my dearest one. My reason for life.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Ian McEwan, &lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;“Atonement”&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50927165891</link><guid>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50927165891</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 21:49:35 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>"Each time you happen to me all over again."</title><description>“Each time you happen to me all over again.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Edith Wharton, &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;“The Age of Innocence”&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50918577902</link><guid>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50918577902</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 19:38:35 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>Didn't See</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/50572220059/didnt-see"&gt;dearoldlove&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Wow, I hung in there way too long hoping you’d see your way to love me, but you really didn’t even SEE me.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50912227915</link><guid>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50912227915</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 17:49:14 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>"I have waited for this opportunity for more than half a century, to repeat to you once again my vow..."</title><description>“I have waited for this opportunity for more than half a century, to repeat to you once again my vow of eternal fidelity and everlasting love.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Gabriel Garcia Marquez, &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;“Love In The Time of Cholera”&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50911067098</link><guid>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50911067098</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 17:27:34 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/6d5dbf685c3168530ffa0ef1e824b42a/tumblr_mmxdtelVyg1ri2ne8o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50904847703</link><guid>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50904847703</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 15:16:27 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/6eb7e3c1b4d02eedd75c7818fa4039a3/tumblr_mfywavEzTh1rpqlkco1_r1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50899806367</link><guid>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50899806367</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 13:05:54 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>"I guess my life hasn’t always been happy, or easy, or exactly what I want. At a certain point, I..."</title><description>““I guess my life hasn’t always been happy, or easy, or exactly what I want. At a certain point, I just have to try not to think too much about certain things, or else they’ll break my heart.””&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Jonathan Franzen  (via &lt;a href="http://13neighbors.tumblr.com/" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;13neighbors&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50895687919</link><guid>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50895687919</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 10:54:52 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>iwontgiveupforeverandever:

Quotes and Sayings - Search Quotes...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/bfa0ef6cdad0d68c6b668fee66c6a82c/tumblr_mn1ng7ldtY1rr2n0mo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://iwontgiveupforeverandever.tumblr.com/post/50813292080/quotes-and-sayings-search-quotes-on-we-heart-it" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;iwontgiveupforeverandever&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;Quotes and Sayings - Search Quotes on We Heart It. &lt;a href="http://weheartit.com/entry/29652780"&gt;&lt;a href="http://weheartit.com/entry/29652780"&gt;http://weheartit.com/entry/29652780&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50891391445</link><guid>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50891391445</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 08:44:00 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>Special Spot</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/50813965351/special-spot" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;dearoldlove&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;How is it that you are still the person I think of before falling asleep? It’s terribly selfish of you to disallow anyone else that very special spot in my mind. I wish you would just disappear.&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50884791314</link><guid>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50884791314</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 06:33:43 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>aseaofquotes:

— Ernest Hemingway
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&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;— Ernest Hemingway&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50875104058</link><guid>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50875104058</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 04:22:00 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>"Those who are hardest to love need it the most."</title><description>“Those who are hardest to love need it the most.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Socrates (via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://themoonflowers.tumblr.com/"&gt;themoonflowers&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50865049579</link><guid>http://beforeiloveandleaveyou.tumblr.com/post/50865049579</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 02:11:25 +0200</pubDate></item></channel></rss>
