Posts tagged love

thebooknamedhenry:

The thought killed her

His lips belonging to someone else

His hands touching someone else

Her insides twisted

And the world

Seemed to whirl around

Making her sick

She felt weaker with each thought

Dizzy with each breath she took

Her skin went cold

And her face felt numb

She could almost see it

Happening in front of her

Almost feel him

Forgetting her

merelyaspectator:

There’s no sense in going to extreme measures to “make sure” someone isn’t going to cheat on you. If someone is going to be unfaithful, they’re going to do it regardless of whether or not you force them to cut contact with all members of the opposite sex, close their facebook account, or always question them until you’re blue in the face. You can’t stop it from happening, you just can’t, and you shouldn’t have to do all that anyway. There needs to be a level of mutual trust.

People are going to be who they really are no matter what you do, so if you can’t trust the person you are with then you might as well just let them go. Why stress over something you cannot control? Sure, we’d like to be in control and have someone cater to our relationship needs, but if they’re not going to do it of their own volition, then what’s the use? Be with someone that is going to treat you well and make you feel secure about yourself and your relationship.

If you don’t want a significant other that’s always flirting with others, then simply don’t be with someone that you know always flirts. (Sounds simple enough, right?) Stop wasting time trying to change someone into what you want, and instead wait it out and be single until you actually find someone who already is what you want.

wordsandlyrics:

1. Don’t make him your everything and lose yourself in the process. Guys don’t like being suffocated and depended on for everything so you shouldn’t drop your friends, your hobbies and the things that made you you- it’s these things that made him like you in the first place.

2. Don’t be too moody or nag him too much. If you have a problem, calmly bring it up and then learn to let go. Trust him and the way he feels about you.

3. Don’t tell him you love him every 5 minutes. Girls love being told how a guy feels, they like hearing sweet words and compliments but guys aren’t like this. They want to maintain their masculinity even if they are in love. Save those three special words for special moments.

4. Stay adventurous. The reason we all have honeymoon periods is because the first month or two of dating is totally new and exciting. If you do the same things, go to the same places and have the same kind of bedroom fun all the time, it becomes routine and the spark dies out.

5. Be flirty. Flirting is not only about getting a guy’s interest, it’s about keeping it. Flirting, being seductive, teasing and keeping some form of sexual banter makes things more fun and exciting for the both of you. 

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(Source: little-madam)

merelyaspectator:

I just want someone who will show me how they feel without me having to ask or drop hints, because they will be intuitive enough to give me the affection I desire and know how much it means to me that I am wanted. I want them to be as in tune to my needs as I am to theirs, because I’ve always felt like I’ve known others better than they knew me. I’d just like a balance, where it finally feels as though I get what I give.

thebooknamedhenry:

I say those words

I hate you

Like they will change

The way I feel

Like one day

I’ll begin

To believe in them

But I look back

And know

That I am lying

Know

That I’ll never hate you

And know

That the only person

I blame

Is myself

For not

Being

Enough